Sexual Offenses Basic 3 Security Education Lesson Note

Subject: Security Education
Class: Primary 3
Duration: 30 minutes

What are Sexual Offenses?

Sexual offenses are serious crimes where people touch others in private parts of their body without permission or force them to do things they don’t want to do with their bodies.

Understanding Your Body

Private Parts of the Body

• Parts of your body that are covered by underwear
• Areas that only you should touch
• Places that others should never touch without good reason
• Body parts that are personal and private

Who Can Touch Your Body

People who may need to touch private parts:

• Doctors during medical check-ups (with parents present)
• Parents helping young children with bathing or dressing
• Nurses when treating medical problems

Important Rules:

• Always have a trusted adult present
• It should be for health or hygiene reasons only
• You should be told why it’s necessary
• Stop anyone who makes you uncomfortable

Types of Sexual Offenses (Age-Appropriate Explanation)

Inappropriate Touching

• When someone touches your private parts without permission
• When strangers or people you know touch you in wrong ways
• Being forced to touch someone else’s private parts
• Any touching that makes you feel uncomfortable or scared

Forced Actions

• Being made to do things with your body that you don’t want
• Someone showing you inappropriate pictures or videos
• Being asked to remove your clothes inappropriately
• Being photographed without clothes on

Inappropriate Words

• People saying bad things about private parts
• Adults asking children to keep secrets about touching
• Someone talking to you about inappropriate body topics
• Using bad words to describe private parts

Warning Signs of Dangerous People

Suspicious Behavior

• Adults who want to be alone with children often
• People who give expensive gifts for no reason
• Someone who asks you to keep secrets about your meetings
• Adults who show too much interest in your body

Inappropriate Requests

• Asking you to remove your clothes
• Wanting to touch your private parts
• Asking you to touch their private parts
• Showing you pictures of naked people

Threatening Language

• Saying bad things will happen if you tell others
• Threatening to hurt you or your family
• Promising special treats for keeping secrets
• Making you feel guilty or scared

How to Protect Yourself

Body Safety Rules

“My Body Belongs to Me”:

• You have the right to say “NO” to unwanted touching
• Your body is yours and you control who touches it
• No one should touch your private parts inappropriately
• Trust your feelings when something doesn’t feel right

Safe and Unsafe Touches:

• Safe touches make you feel comfortable and happy
• Unsafe touches make you feel scared or uncomfortable
• Good touches are hugs from family and handshakes
• Bad touches are on private parts or make you feel wrong

What to Do if Someone Tries to Hurt You

Say “NO” Loudly:

• Shout “NO!” if someone tries to touch you inappropriately
• Tell them “Stop!” in a loud voice
• Run away to a safe place immediately
• Don’t be afraid to make noise and get attention

Tell Trusted Adults:

• Tell your parents or guardians immediately
• Report to teachers or school counselors
• Talk to police officers or security guards
• Don’t keep dangerous secrets

Get Help Quickly:

• Go to safe places like police stations or hospitals
• Call emergency numbers if you’re in danger
• Ask other adults for help if your parents aren’t available
• Remember that getting help is always the right thing to do

People You Can Trust

Family Members

• Parents, grandparents, and caring relatives
• Older siblings who love and protect you
• Family friends who have been trusted for long time

School Personnel

• Teachers, principals, and school counselors
• School nurses and security guards
• Trusted school staff who care about children

Community Helpers

• Police officers and security personnel
• Doctors and nurses at hospitals
• Religious leaders like pastors and imams
• Social workers who help children

Important Safety Messages

It’s Never Your Fault

• If someone hurts you, it’s not your fault
• You didn’t do anything wrong
• Bad people are responsible for their actions
• You deserve protection and care

Breaking Dangerous Secrets

• It’s okay to tell about inappropriate touching
• Don’t keep secrets that make you feel bad
• Telling trusted adults helps keep you safe
• You won’t get in trouble for reporting bad behavior

Getting Support

• Adults are there to protect and help you
• You deserve to feel safe all the time
• There are people who care about your safety
• Asking for help shows courage and strength

What Schools and Communities Should Do

Create Safe Environments

• Teach children about body safety
• Have clear rules about appropriate behavior
• Train teachers to recognize signs of abuse
• Provide safe spaces for children to report problems

Support Victims

• Believe children who report inappropriate behavior
• Get professional help for children who are hurt
• Ensure that dangerous people are reported to authorities
• Help families get the support they need

Class Exercise

1. Fill in the blanks:

Words: private, permission, trusted, body

1. Sexual offenses involve touching _____________ parts without permission.
2. No one should touch your _____________ parts inappropriately.
3. Always tell _____________ adults if someone makes you uncomfortable.
4. Your _____________ belongs to you and you control who touches it.

1. Choose the correct answer:

1. Who should you tell if someone touches you inappropriately? a) No one b) Trusted adults c) The person who hurt you
2. What should you do if someone tries to touch your private parts? a) Keep it secret b) Say “NO” loudly and get help c) Do nothing
3. Your private parts are: a) Parts covered by underwear b) Your hands and face c) Only your hair

1. Write SAFE or UNSAFE:

1. A doctor examining you with your parents present: _______
2. A stranger asking you to remove your clothes: _______
3. Someone giving you expensive gifts and asking for secrets: _______
4. Your parent helping you bathe when you’re young: _______
5. An adult showing you inappropriate pictures: _______

1. Write what you should do in these situations:

1. Someone tries to touch your private parts:
2. An adult asks you to keep secrets about touching:
3. You feel uncomfortable about how someone is treating you:

1. Complete these sentences:

1. Your body belongs to _____________ and you control who touches it.
2. If someone hurts you inappropriately, it’s _____________ your fault.
3. Always tell _____________ adults about inappropriate touching.
4. Safe touches make you feel _____________ and happy.

1. List three trusted adults you can tell:
2. List three warning signs of dangerous people:
3. Answer these questions:

1. What are sexual offenses?
2. Why is it important to tell trusted adults about inappropriate touching?
3. What does “your body belongs to you” mean?

1. Write TRUE or FALSE:

1. It’s okay for strangers to touch your private parts. _______
2. You should always tell trusted adults about inappropriate touching. _______
3. Children are to blame when adults hurt them. _______
4. You have the right to say “NO” to unwanted touching. _______

Your safety is important – always tell trusted adults if someone makes you uncomfortable!